"A man with dreams needs a woman with vision. Her perspective, faith, and support will change his reality. If she doesn’t challenge you, then she’s no good for you. Men who want to stay ordinary will tell you not to have expectations of them. Men who want you to be great will expect you to push them, pray with them, and invest in them. If you’ve ran from or played with a good woman, don’t get mad or complain when all you’re left with are the hoes. One great thing is better than a thousand mediocre flings. But I don’t expect everybody to get that. So to each is own. Just be smart."